It sounds like you either have a dream come true, or a dreaded encounter with somebody that you aren’t interested in. Either way, we’re here to help you find out why this girl is messaging you so much and what her intentions are.
In this guide, we will be discussing the various reasons why a girl might be texting you every day. We’ll discuss if she’s interested in you as a romantic partner or perhaps is just finding a way to get your test answers for last week’s quiz. Girls are very complicated creatures with numerous reasons that may be doing this, so we’ll go over everything carefully for you so you don’t get confused.
What Does it Mean When a Girl Texts You Every day?
Most of the time, when a girl acts like a big flirt, she’ll go out of her way to show it. Texting you every day may seem like an easy choice for her. Some tips and tricks to figuring this out would be to analyze what she’s saying; is she asking you a lot about your day or telling you a lot about hers? Girls also love using ‘aww’ in a text when they are interested. A girl who is interested will want to know everything about you, and also share plenty about her own day. That way you can learn some new things about her, as well.
As you can tell from this conversation above, both parties are invested in the conversation. They’re both asking questions and giving long detailed replies, which is a good sign.
Here are three ways you can check for yourself to see how she feels:
You need to test her emotions and figure out if she’s flirting with you or not. Knowing this is the next step to figuring out her intentions with you:
- Check her mood whenever you’re around versus when you aren’t. See what her friends might have to say.
- See if she gets jealous or irritated when you talk about other people.
- Invite her out to plans and see how interested she is.
If you really think you need to know more or are close with any of her friends, maybe ask them for advice or see if they know your girl’s intentions. This is a good way to know if you’re currently in the friendzone:
- Be honest and tell them you think she likes you. See how they respond.
- If they aren’t forward, see if they’ve dropped you any hints or messages.
- Do they seem quiet or shy as you ask them? They may be hiding valuable information.
She’s been a huge tease. You’ve studied her long enough that you just need to figure this out. Look, you’re clearly at the end of your rope and need to know if this girl likes you. Maybe you have feelings for her and you want to see if she reciprocates them? Perhaps you just want to know if she thinks of you as a friend or not. See if this girl likes you by pulling her to the side where you two can have a private talk. See if she’s interested in you or if she’s ready for anything serious. If she isn’t interested, then she’ll tell you automatically and you both can continue with your day.
You can tell from this conversation above that the girl isn’t interested in the conversation based on her short answers. He’s also doing all the work and asking the questions, which makes it a one-sided conversation. Instead of asking so many questions, he should try making some statements to see how she reacts.
For example, instead of asking her about the weather (which isn’t interesting), he could say “You look like you study X”. or “You seem like you’re into Y”.
When a girl texts you every single day then just suddenly stops, this can be a huge heart breaker and generally just a pain in the butt. Perhaps she gave you some hints previously that you mistook as flirting? Maybe she really did mean what she said about wanting to be friends? Perhaps she was hiding something and was too shy to admit her feelings? You should get to the bottom of this and do some further investigating. After all, texting etiquette is very important for both online dating as well as texting for love. In the meantime, here are a few things you can do:
- Let her know that you’ve noticed halts in texting
- Text her more often to see if she returns the messages
- Be a little flirty and see if she flirts back
- Pay attention to what she’s talking about in her messages
There are lots of reasons why she may have stopped texting you. You can check out this link for some great tips and tricks. Otherwise, keep your eyes peeled. Be sure to keep an open mind to the following:
- She might be very shy and want to talk to you through messaging over front conversation.
- Maybe she’s too busy and doesn’t have a lot of time to talk to you.
- Honestly, you might have said something wrong or strange to her, so reread your old messages to find out.
If a girl texted you first then immediately stopped, this could result in a few different things. Maybe she just got busy in life and hasn’t responded to you yet. Perhaps somebody else caught her attention and she doesn’t want to string you along? Lots of different reasons could be at play for why she’s suddenly not giving you attention.
This seems like a very sweet girl, and maybe she just has a lot on her plate right now. She might not have a lot of time for a relationship, or maybe she’s just invested in somebody else. You can still be kind to her and treat her with respect. Not only will this show her you’re a great guy who takes rejection well, but she’ll also keep you in mind for the future in case something doesn’t work out.
Even if you don’t manage to win her heart, you can still help her smile. Be kind and friendly to her, and help show her that you’re a great friend to have in her life. Not only will it be great making a new friend with this girl, but she may even have a lot to help you with through both life as well as dating. You never know if she’ll have any tips on finding a romantic partner down the line.
Take the rejection with ease. Not only is this girl kind enough and honest to tell you how she feels, but she wanted to tell you nicely and politely. Maybe you just aren’t her type? Work on yourself in the meantime and maybe she’ll even change her mind. Hit the gym a few times a week and make sure to clean and shower daily. Pursue some new hobbies or work on some old ones. These things will help distract you as well as make a difference in you that others will immediately start to notice.
When a girl messages a guy, she’s usually not that forward about what her intentions are. If she’s giving you some mixed signals, flat out ask her what she wants to talk about, or use some basic hints and clues she’s throwing your way and try to figure it out for yourself. If you’ve already been rejected but something has changed in either of your lives, she may be trying to win you back over.
If you’re wondering if you’ve gained any interest from this girl after the stalling has happened, pay attention to how she’s acting around you and what she likes to talk about. If you think she’s giving you the flirty eyes after all this time, and that maybe she’s starting to see you in a different light, try asking her out to dinner. Make it just a friend’s date. If she’s more than raring to go, take her excitement as a good sign.
The above image is a great way of asking the girl out for a date. Make sure to stay friendly and be ready for rejection. However, if you’ve been building rapport and getting her comfortable, you should have a good chance of gaining some interest.
If you were head over heels for her before and she thinks she still has you wrapped around her finger or that maybe you’d still drop a hat for her at any moment, prove to her that you’re much more independent now. Make sure that she knows your other priorities come first, and that you have friends and family you care about. If you make a point to explain that she’s not your entire world anymore, not only will this possibly gain interest, but she may gain a lot of respect for you.
Show this girl that you’ve achieved quite a bit of things in the short time since you two have stopped talking. Talk to her about all of the new hobbies you’ve gained interest in, or tell her about an achievement you’ve recently made in school or work. She’ll find this interesting, especially since you’re talking about something you’re passionate about.
Hopefully, this guide has helped clarify whether the girl that you’re texting is interested in you romantically or just as a friend.
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